Impotence – just the word strikes terror into the heart of every man who is familiar with what it means. As males we identify our sexuality either at least in part, and more often wholly, with our ability to have and maintain an erection. As soon as the word impotence applies to us we lose […]

Sexual lubricants, sometimes call personal lubricant, can greatly enhance sexual pleasure between partners, when using a sex toy or during masturbation for both women and men. When making love to a partner lubricants can add to the erotic feel of the experience. For some women it may be essential to use a sexual lube as […]

The key to good kissing is creativity, active listening, and changing patterns. Creativity speaks for itself. Creativity includes trying new ideas, and/or new combinations of movements, locations and moods. Active listening refers to paying attention to your partner’s verbal and non-verbal signals. Is your partner currently excited? Is your partner in a happy or sad […]

“How will I know when I meet the right person?” I often hear this question in my counseling practice. The answer is fairly complex. There are two different reasons that people have for wanting to get married: 1. To get love, validation, security and safety. 2. To share love and to grow emotionally and spiritually. […]

The Perfect Argument For More Sex. Satisfaction with your relationship leads to you making more opportunities for sex. More frequent sex leads to happier couples and happier couples have sex more than unhappy couples. Isn’t that fantastic! One reason why some people have poor sex lives is the fact they have too high standards. One […]

What do men wish women knew? That depends on the kind of man. We’ll look at the three stages men grow through as they evolve spiritually as lovers. At each stage, men want something different from women. 1. “My way or the highway.” You may recognize this attitude, or maybe your man has actually said […]

Sexual intercourse can be painful when there isn’t enough sex lube. Sex can also be not as good as it should if there is excessive vaginal lubrication. A few options available to solve this problem. Excessive vaginal lubrication can reduce sexual satisfaction and physical pleasure for both partners. If sex doesn’t feel as good as […]

In my work with relationships, it became very clear to me that people’s feelings about the quality of their sexual relationship is a fantastic guide to the quality of their relationship. My work is about opening up a conversation that needs to happen for growth to occur. Whether that’s between me and my client or […]

“People usually cheat because there is a conflict between their physical and emotional desires,” said an article I read on the Internet, and it went on to talk about the sex drive (which comes from the reptilian brain) and the “emotional monogamous” need, which has only been around for a few thousand years. The reptilian […]

Within the marriage both parties give and receive in order to be successful. And this relationship is a process which will be built up for both spouses. Marriage is a process in which both parties give and receive in order to be successful. You can not have a good marriage if one of you wants […]